What your child is learning at HJJ and why it matters

What Your Child Is Really Learning at Heritage Jiu Jitsu (And Why It Matters

Heritage Jiu Jitsu: What We Really Teach and Why It Matters

Introduction: Inform Yourself

Most parents enroll their child in martial arts for the same reasons: confidence, discipline, focus, and self-defense. Every school claims to offer these. But how? And does the method really match the message?

At Heritage Jiu Jitsu, we do things differently—and deliberately.

This article is the most important thing you’ll read about your child’s martial arts education. It explains exactly what we teach, why we teach it that way, and how it develops the attributes you want most for your child.

The Myth of Uniformity

“Jiu Jitsu” isn’t one single thing.

Google it and you’ll find dozens of variations: Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ), No-Gi Jiu Jitsu, Submission Grappling, MMA Jiu Jitsu—the list goes on. Each one looks different, feels different, and teaches different skills based on:

• What you wear

• What rules are followed

• Whether it’s focused on sport, fighting, or tradition

Yet the term “Jiu Jitsu” gets tossed around like they’re all the same. They’re not.

Different goals require different methods.

If you want your child to gain real-world skills—not just collect belts—then you need to know the difference.

Heritage: Jiu Jitsu Rebuilt

At Heritage, we’ve stripped Jiu Jitsu down to its essence.

We’re not here to preserve outdated rituals.

We’re here to train what works.

Our curriculum is based on:

• What’s working in elite-level no-gi grappling (ADCC, WNO, MMA, UFC BJJ)

• What’s statistically effective under pressure

• What helps everyday kids—not just elite athletes

We don’t teach Jiu Jitsu out of nostalgia.

We teach it based on evidence.

The Problem: Tradition Without Interrogation

Jiu Jitsu’s growth has created a strange phenomenon: schools repeating old traditions without asking why they still exist.

Take the gi, for example.

It’s a uniform left over from 19th-century Japan—designed for judo, not modern self-defense. It offers grips and friction that don’t exist in real fights or in modern sports like MMA. Yet many schools treat it as sacred.

The result? A generation of students who perform well in artificial environments but fall apart when the gi comes off.

At Heritage, we don’t use the gi—because we prioritize skill, not fabric.

Wrestling: The Original Martial Art

Long before belts and uniforms, humans wrestled.

Every ancient culture—from Greece to Mongolia—used wrestling to train mobility, control, and survival. The rule was simple: don’t end up on your back.

Today, grappling (not striking) is still the safest and most natural way for children to learn how to physically engage, control space, and defend themselves.

Why We Don’t Train in the Gi

People often ask: “Why no gi?”

Our answer: because it doesn’t prepare kids for the real world.

The gi promotes:

• Grips that don’t exist outside the academy

• Slower, friction-based movement

• A false sense of technical ability

No-gi grappling builds:

• Balance, pressure, and real control

• Adaptability and athletic movement

• Skills that translate to wrestling, MMA, and self-defense

Training in the gi makes you better at training in the gi. That’s it. It doesn’t carry over to anything else.

Top vs. Bottom: The Guard Myth

Another outdated belief in Jiu Jitsu: that being on bottom (“the guard”) is just as good as being on top.

Reality check—it’s not.

In real conflict:

• Top = control, mobility, and the ability to disengage

• Bottom = survival mode, a temporary escape plan

We teach the guard, but we teach it for what it truly is:

A survival position designed to:

1. Protect yourself (from punches, chokes, armlocks.

2. Stand up and get out of a bad situation

3. Strike our opponent on top of us

4. Sweep your opponent in order to get into top position

5. Submit only when truly advantageous

Top control wins fights. That’s where we want your child to be.

Belt Factories and the Sportification of Jiu Jitsu

Many schools today have become belt factories.

They promote:

• Memorization over mastery

• Routines over resistance

• Points over pressure

At Heritage, we don’t care how many techniques you know—we care how well you can apply them under stress.

We don’t build competitors for tournaments. We build martial artists who can handle pressure in the real world.

How We Actually Teach: The Ecological Approach & Task Based Games

We follow the most modern, science-based method of coaching Jiu Jitsu: ecological dynamics and the constraints-led approach (CLA), or Task Based Games.

Popularized by coaches like Greg Souders & Kit Dale this method is what modern research is stating about how humans actually learn:

• No robotic drilling

• No choreography

• Just live, scenario-based problems to solve

Think of it like how children learn language: through interaction, feedback, and experimentation—not repetition and scripts.

This approach is also used by:

John Danaher (BJJ’s most respected coach)

Craig Jones (MMA and ADCC star)

NCAA Division I wrestling programs like Penn State

It’s proven. It’s faster. And it works.

No-Gi Bias, Belt Politics, and Honesty

In many schools, if you don’t train in the gi, you don’t get promoted.

That’s politics—not martial arts.

At Heritage, your skill is your rank. If you can perform under pressure, you move forward—regardless of what you wear.

We don’t withhold progress based on tradition. We reward what works.

What We Actually Teach at Heritage Jiu Jitsu

Here’s what your child is learning at Heritage:

✅ No-Gi Jiu Jitsu/Submission Grappling

High-percentage techniques used in MMA and ADCC. No fluff.

✅ Wrestling

Because nearly every fight begins with a clinch, not a kata.

✅ Self-Defense That Works

Distance management, striking awareness, and ground control.

✅ Scenario-Based Learning

Not memorized techniques, but live problem solving.

✅ Athletic Development/Kinesthetic Awareness

We build strength, balance, coordination, and timing—not just toughness.

✅ Striking for Realism (When Age-Appropriate)

Kids learn striking as they mature into it safely, not before.

✅ Real Pressure Testing

Because drills don’t mean anything if they don’t work under resistance.

✅ Resiliency & Physicality

Jiu Jitsu develops more than just technique—it builds toughness, grit, and the ability to “flip the switch” when it’s time to engage. In a world where many kids are taught to avoid conflict at all costs, our training creates a safe space to explore intensity, contact, and resistance. Students learn to stay calm under pressure, push through discomfort, and physically assert themselves when the situation calls for it. Over time, they develop not just physical skills, but the internal resilience to meet challenges head-on—with confidence, control, and composure.

Why Heritage Is the Best Fit for Children

Martial arts should meet kids where they are developmentally.

Here’s why no-gi grappling is the best place to start:

• Natural Movement: Kids love to wrestle. Rough play is part of healthy 

development.

• Real Self-Defense: Most kids’ fights look like wrestling matches. That’s what we 

prepare them for.

• Striking Comes Later: Punching and kicking take more coordination. We add it 

when it’s safe, smart, and supervised.

• Age-Based Skill Development: We use “training age” to determine when a child is 

ready to layer more complex tools.

Heritage gives your child the safest, smartest, and most reality-based start in martial arts—period.

Final Thoughts: We Teach Jiu Jitsu, Wrestling & Real Applicable Martial Arts

We’re not bound by dogma or blind commitment to any given style. 

Jiu Jitsu & Martial Arts—rebuilt for the real world.

If you’re looking for a martial arts school that challenges tradition, uses the latest science, and prioritizes real performance…

Welcome to Heritage Jiu Jitsu.